Comments on: Jealousy and Low Self Esteem - How to Cope http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem Michael Skowronski's Relationship Advice, Spiritual Healing, Wisdom & Love Stories Mon, 06 Feb 2012 09:17:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.1 By: Liz http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-1081 Liz Fri, 23 Jan 2009 00:40:41 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-1081 Thank you Michael. Your writing on the above topic has made me see. It has always been a struggle for me. I sense people's intentions towards me and I wonder why they are so mean (and ofcourse their mean intentions is often manifested through mean, nasty words and actions). I even blame myself because I have felt that I needed to change, kind of like mirroring their nastiness for everything to be okay. I have often asked why these people I know were this way. I keep on saying to myself ' I am a kind person", and will continue to be so. You have made me realise that it has nothing to do with me. Unkind words and hateful natures seems to be the rule of the day. I just do my own things and continue to focus on myself. I have often considered myself to be a work in progress. Always evaluationg myself and looking for ways to better myself. I have come a long way but it seems that doesn't sit well with some people I know. It has been hard lately because It seems to be happening more and more. Nobody wants you to shine. It is much better for them for you to be underfoot and without prospects. I have left some of them behind in the past but they always come back. A kind word is all I ask. I will take heed of what you say about being loving within myself and learning to know who I am. Anyhow, thank you for having a fantastic website. I will be checking out your book on Amazon. Thank you Michael. Your writing on the above topic has made me see. It has always been a struggle for me. I sense people’s intentions towards me and I wonder why they are so mean (and ofcourse their mean intentions is often manifested through mean, nasty words and actions). I even blame myself because I have felt that I needed to change, kind of like mirroring their nastiness for everything to be okay. I have often asked why these people I know were this way. I keep on saying to myself ‘ I am a kind person”, and will continue to be so. You have made me realise that it has nothing to do with me. Unkind words and hateful natures seems to be the rule of the day. I just do my own things and continue to focus on myself. I have often considered myself to be a work in progress. Always evaluationg myself and looking for ways to better myself. I have come a long way but it seems that doesn’t sit well with some people I know. It has been hard lately because It seems to be happening more and more. Nobody wants you to shine. It is much better for them for you to be underfoot and without prospects. I have left some of them behind in the past but they always come back. A kind word is all I ask. I will take heed of what you say about being loving within myself and learning to know who I am. Anyhow, thank you for having a fantastic website. I will be checking out your book on Amazon.

]]> By: How to catch a cheating husband http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-1033 How to catch a cheating husband Sun, 28 Dec 2008 01:14:16 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-1033 I think Jealousy is on of the by products of low self esteem. I know someone who has very low self esteem who is not only jealous, but also very paranoid. Thank you for this post, it's a very good read and I'll refer it to some of my friends. <em>How to catch a cheating husband's last blog post..<a href='http://howtocatchacheatinghusband.blogspot.com/2008/12/how-to-catch-cheating-husband-signs.html' rel="nofollow">Signs of a cheating husband</a></em> I think Jealousy is on of the by products of low self esteem.

I know someone who has very low self esteem who is not only jealous, but also very paranoid.

Thank you for this post, it’s a very good read and I’ll refer it to some of my friends.

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]]> By: Ann Morris http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-1026 Ann Morris Wed, 10 Dec 2008 14:55:15 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-1026 I would really like to congratulate the author of this blog because the owner really knows the intricacies and complexities of the relationship problems in details. I am also writing about a very complex relationship issue and that is How To Get Ex Husband Back if you are just breakup with him. This will be really a useful read for wives who have recently gone through the painful process of breakup with their husband and hopefully I think that they will get the effective solution to get over breakup issues. (Ann Morris - aka - http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-get-ex-husband-back) I would really like to congratulate the author of this blog because the owner really knows the intricacies and complexities of the relationship problems in details. I am also writing about a very complex relationship issue and that is How To Get Ex Husband Back if you are just breakup with him. This will be really a useful read for wives who have recently gone through the painful process of breakup with their husband and hopefully I think that they will get the effective solution to get over breakup issues.

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]]> By: earthlingorgeous http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-432 earthlingorgeous Sat, 12 Apr 2008 01:01:45 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-432 I love your blog so much... is it ok to add you to my link list? I hope you don't mind. thanks so much. <em>earthlingorgeous's last blog post..<a href='http://thehaven-earthlingorgeous.blogspot.com/2008/04/kind-words.html' rel="nofollow">Kind Words</a></em> I love your blog so much… is it ok to add you to my link list? I hope you don’t mind. thanks so much.

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]]> By: Angel http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-322 Angel Sun, 09 Mar 2008 13:00:12 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-322 I´m learning english now as second language, but I try to understand your writes. Bye <em>Angel's last blog post..<a href='http://cunday.blogspot.com/2008/03/asociacion-association.html' rel="nofollow">ASOCIACION-association</a></em> I´m learning english now as second language, but I try to understand your writes.
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]]> By: Lorna http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-261 Lorna Sun, 24 Feb 2008 17:00:26 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-261 Thank you very much for considering this request Thank you very much for considering this request

]]> By: Lorna http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-260 Lorna Sun, 24 Feb 2008 16:58:44 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/jealousy-and-low-self-esteem#comment-260 My 35 -year old daughter is very insecure. There is reason for that - she has spent the last 20 years in treatment for manic depression and as a corollary has a massive weight problem She is married and has the most wonderful daughter (18 mos ). I have spent most of my life helping, supporting, doing for, and guiding her to lead her own life, but she is supersensitive to the words and actions of others and constantly looks to me for approval of her actions. I know that I must withdraw more to allow her to stand on her own, but need some coping mechanisms so I don't get sucked back in. I feel trapped and she is not maturing as she should. Lorna My 35 -year old daughter is very insecure. There is reason for that - she has spent the last 20 years in treatment for manic depression and as a corollary has a massive weight problem She is married and has the most wonderful daughter (18 mos ). I have spent most of my life helping, supporting, doing for, and guiding her to lead her own life, but she is supersensitive to the words and actions of others and constantly looks to me for approval of her actions. I know that I must withdraw more to allow her to stand on her own, but need some coping mechanisms so I don’t get sucked back in. I feel trapped and she is not maturing as she should.
Lorna

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